Traveling and/or RV-Living with Dogs and Pets

“There is something so inviting, about packing up belongings, while in transport to a vacation or having a new lifestyle of a home on wheels, with a stocked kitchen, accessible bathroom, comfy bed and bringing along family and/or your beloved pet, all while getting to the destination of choice”. C .Star. V

While out Camping or RV-living, caring and concerns for your pet is much the same as when you are living in a house. If you are having to leave your pet for any length of time, you want to make sure to check for or put away anything that your pet could get a hold of or into (like foods that may be toxic garbage can, etc.) or that would be dangerous or destructive. Living in the RV, we do have to consider that and other issues, such as turning off our gas-propane and water when we leave. We ensure all food is away and garbage is taken out.

Have a schedule of some type: “Whether you live in a house, an RV (on the road or camping), it is always best in keeping a schedule of some-type, this is a must (whether it be for them to eliminate or a feeding schedule). It is important that your dog (pet) is being taking out to be able to daily eliminate (or for some pets that use litter boxes or other areas and keep those areas cleaned-up). Your pet needs to get a chance to go out often enough and have some-type of consist schedule (so they can learn to depend upon it and will get to go out and “eliminate” when they are out) and if not, then they will go wherever they will, when they can’t hold it anymore. Same goes for feeding your pet, if you don’t have some type of consistency in schedule (as a morning feeding & a dinner-time feeding) of enough and proper nutrition, they may not get what they need and get into other foods they shouldn’t..

**A method we use with our dogs: I call “the transition technique” in addition to last thing before bed & first thing in the morning) adjusted to a schedule or routine for elimination needs and whenever we are going to get ready to go somewhere and have to leave our dogs, we make sure to take them out shortly before we leave. This way they can get some fresh air, exercise and eliminate. Then, whenever we get back from being away from our dogs (whether they are with us or if they’re home or in RV waiting for us ) we always take them out promptly, so they don’t have accidents trying to hold it for anymore length of time..

Having a routine, a consistent schedule or a method will ensure that your dog can depend upon and know that they will get to go out to eliminate. Sometimes they’re not feeling well or they have a stomach upset or something else wrong with them and they could have an accident, but it’s not the dogs fault and they should not be punished.

Keep poop bags with you out on walks: There are little holders of doo doo bags that can attach to the leash and you can refill them, so you never are without and dog-safe wipes to clean their paws from coming in when after taking them and outside. You need to make sure to clean up their poop after your dogs go, even if you have to come back with a doo doo bag to pick it up, unless another Rv-er or camper around close by can give you one (not only to be courteous to others), but so dog lovers and owners don’t get a bad name and not welcome to places with their dogs . As well, picking up after you dog helps us to know that our pet went poop and if it has a good consistency or not (if your pet has a upset stomach or any other issue, that they may need something in helping them). As well, when you do take your dog out, watch and make sure they did actually go to the bathroom. One of our dogs goes like clockwork whenever we take her out and our other dog, we usually have to walk a bit more with him or wait, even if he finds a good spot as he will sniff and look around a little bit before he squats and poops!! Many dogs go poop once a day (around the same time-especially if fed on and around a schedule time) some dogs go poop twice or may need to go out because of a possible upset stomach. It all depends and many dogs like to urinate a few times when they get to go out, even if they only out for a short walk. Let them empty those colons and bladders!!

Have your pets needs, food, treats, toys & water: Plan to bring along extra food for your dog (pet), in case the worst should happen and you break down or are away longer than you initially expected and bring plenty of fresh water, along with flea and tick remedies. Keep their water & food bowls clean and accessible at all times (I use white vinegar and water put in spray bottle, spray and wipe after each feeding and clean water bowl too, both get slimy). Pack your dog’s (pets) favorite blankie, toys and treats, to ensure they will be happy and have something to occupy themselves when you are relaxing in the RV. Some dogs will need help in getting in and out of any type of RV, travel trailer or 5th wheel, do there are ramps for assisting them. If there’s several dogs with your travel, create a routine to bring them in last and take them out first or whichever works best, so other dogs can’t trample on them. Make sure to be aware of what safe options of treats and foods are, for you to give your pet. Rawhide should not be given to dogs under 1 yr old and rawhide is not a good option anyway, never give them much of it and especially if dog is left alone while eating it, this can be dangerous. I give bully bones, once in a great while as a treat or bones I get at the grocery store wrapped in plastic for dogs, but when they get to a point of sharp points it broken off shards I throw that all away ( as those could get logged in throat if your dog). Always think to use common sense to keep your pets safe

Exercise & mental stimulation is needed: Your dog (pet) may be accustomed to frequent exercise in a backyard or other exercise routines. If you are staying in a campground or Rv resort, you likely will not have a fenced in area for him to play. Some RV parks and campgrounds have fenced-in, off-leash areas or doggie parks. If not you could find a local off-leash dog park or just remember to take your dog for a nice long walk to get them exercise and easier to relax when back inside. Some campgrounds are near beaches, and other bodies of water and may allow pets to go with you to that area. Many people is that all dogs do you know how to swim and that isn’t necessarily true some dogs need to be taught how to swim and some are terrified of water, a dog needs a life vest just like a child and owners must know for sure that their dog knows how to swim and can swim to safely . If not the dog must be taught to. Be cautious when walking your dogs in wooded areas, critter tend to live in them and keep your dog close to the path or street sides you are on, as ticks also lurk in path and wooded street side areas.

Keep pet safe & comfortable in travels: Traveling in an RV is most likely entirely new for most dogs and owners may not know what all to expect. Our pets need to have a place for them that they can be comfortable and safe when the Rv is moving from one place to another. Designating a place (such as the couch for some dogs) or others may need to be crated In case they have travel anxiety. Most dogs enjoy riding in a car, but moving along in a motor home can feel a bit different and your pet may need time to adjust. You should have your dog (pet) near where you’ll be riding in the Rv motorhome and possibly encouraged them to relax on a couch or choose a location for your dog (pet) to ride. Create or designate a safe (in traveling) and comfy place for your dog (pet). No matter where you choose for your dog (pet) to ride, be sure that they are comfortable when driving long hours and plan to stop every few hours for bathroom breaks, water and feedings. If you are towing a fifth wheel or travel trailer, your dog will need to ride in your truck with you, as it is never safe for anyone to ride in the trailer while towing. When it’s bedtime, be sure to have a similar routine as you did at home, when it’s time for your pet to sleep. If your pet typically sleeps in your bed, allow the same in the RV. If he has his own dog bed, be sure to bring it along for your trip. This will help your pet and you, to get a good nights sleep.

Have a plan, whenever you can’t bring your (pets): When having to leave your dog (pet) when you can not bring them or it’s not dog-friendly, is one of the biggest factors when having your dog (pet) along camping or on an RV trip. Especially, when you will have to leave your dog (pet) alone for more than a couple hours at a time. RVs may have room for your dog to walk around and most dogs should be fine with being left behind for a little while. After all, most dog owners leave their dog alone at home whenever they are working or running errands, so this is something your dog should be accustomed to. You should put all the blinds down and play some soothing music or TV show to block out extra light and sound. This will encourage your dog to spend more time snoozing and less time barking while you are away. We have used a baby gate put between the kitchen area and bedroom to make an area for our dogs to be in and boundaries to keep our dogs out and calm, if we need to separate them from guests or such. If you are truly uncomfortable with leaving your dog (pet) alone for hours, try to plan and seek out a local pet-sitter or dog-walker to spend time with your dog while you are away. Possibly, (when camping) if you know of a fellow camper out with you or even notify the camp host to have either check on your pet, if need be. I don’t think I’d ever trust some kind “technology” just yet, in leaving my pet in the RV and going away and just assume the AC will kick in at a certain temperature and keep it running to do so. If pets are left inside a vehicle with windows 1/2 down or an RV with windows open, it can still be too hot for a pet to handle if the weather is hot outside, especially if not parked in the shade (and you also have to think about when it’s too cold and must not leave any propane on). If we have to leave our pets, we always turn off the propane gas. We try to never leave our dogs for more than 2 hours or so, but with our routines with them every now and then we have had to leave them 4-6 hours and they do fine because they know we will take them out and (if time to eat) we will feed them as soon as we get back . If we had worries, we would let someone around know to check on them and make sure they are ok and that the AC is running. We take our dogs with us, most of the time even if we have to do errands and let them stay in our vehicle with the AC on or windows down sufficiently for air and that we can see readily see them or we do the errands while we take turn sitting with them in the vehicle.

Pets & Common Sense: Most campgrounds are pet friendly, some allow pets in all areas and some have restrictions. Some have dog run or dog parks and some have restrictions of bigger dogs (usually rare though). However, pet owners should know what their pet is capable of and of their pets personalities. Pet owners should know what can trigger them into an aggravated or stirred up situation and know how to prevent these or what to do in that event. As campgrounds have become more crowded, campers and RVers must practice social etiquette, pet etiquettes and common sense, with their neighbors. However most do, but sometimes you may run into those whom just don’t. Dogs are going to bark, that’s what they do and for the most part that’s their job and protecting and if they see other dogs or commotion going on they may bark and they shouldn’t be punished or hit because of that. I want to believe that pet owners might not know how to properly deal with some issues and yet, etiquettes are just common sense. Perhaps they have not trained their dog(s) and some think the portable pen outside of their RV (as their dogs running from side to side) or on a tether line and stake in the ground or in the pen (possibly barking) while the owner(s) are nowhere to be seen, is adequate. This can be dangerous and not to mention, that one’s personal space is important to everyone, pet owners, the pet and those whom no longer or have never owned pets. What I noticed is some dogs will just bark at everyone passing by or if they see another dog and this is a common thing, but some pet owners just ignore the dog completely or yells at the dog(s) to shut up. The better thing to do, is to take action and remove the dogs from sight of seeing each other and they will calm down. Training dogs the “Quite Command” (by being rewarded) is also good and this can be learned how to do this by searching it on google and following carefully the instructions and steps in doing so.. I have always been an animal lover and really enjoy meeting new dogs, especially if they are well-behaved, but stray dogs can pose risks. You should NEVER assume all dogs are friendly.

Pet Etiquettes: We walk our dogs often and try to find or choose the road, areas or path in the campground that’s more private, has less crowded by campers and are on the lookout for other dogs at campsites as we pass by or approach them and this helps too. As I mentioned, often dogs will bark and some get overly excited and stirred-up when they happen to see or sense another dog (or animal). If we happen to see another owner and their dog(s) coming our way, we usually just turn onto a different way if we can. Best not to look at a dog if your trying to get pass them with your dog, just get control of your dog and with leash, direct them to keep going as you pass them. My one senior dog just goes crazy when she sees another dog approaching (there was even a time where I had to ask another camper, if I could go behind his car and wait till some people and their dogs had passed so my dog didn’t see them and the coast was clear)!! She’s a small dog, so I can also just pick her up and walk the other way.. Every once in awhile we experienced noisy pets and have witnessed those whom leave their dogs (pets) alone in their tents or Rv’s and take off and are gone the whole day and meanwhile their dog(s) are barking the whole time and I mean for hours. This should not be allowed. I realize that people have things to do, places to go and sometimes they can’t take the dogs, but some type of arrangement should be made and especially for dogs that have separation anxiety or that tend to bark when left alone (there are things to get to keep dogs occupied and also dog CBD and such to keep dogs calm if needed). Sadly, I’ve watched owners that don’t even seem to talk nicely to their pet or gently show patients or love to their dogs. Please don’t be one of those people.

Have a plan in case an emergency : If an emergency situation should arise, it is always good to be prepared. Have the number for a local veterinarian handy just in case the worst should happen. Be careful not to let your dog (pet) slip-out when coming in and going out, from your RV and keep an ID tag on your pet’s collar at all times (put cell phone number, where you can be reached on pet’s tags). This will ensure that someone can find you, if your dog (pet) were to escape. There are also magnetic signs or stickers that can be placed on the outside of one’s RV that states information about your dogs (pets) that are inside and how to reach owners in case of emergency while away from RV. Keep a prepared folder of our dogs (pet) info with Vet information, all legal documents, even current COLOR printout pictures of your with lost dog (pet) info, (hopefully never needed), but readily available for instant handing out to Police, Park Campground Hosts and surrounding areas.

Keeping your dog (pet) safe outside: Dogs (all animals in general) are nosey and that’s what causes a risk. If you are going for their last bathroom walk for the night and it’s beginning to get dark or is dark outside, you must bring a flashlight of some type of lighting to be able to see what’s on you and your dogs pathway. There could be something you don’t want to step on or that your dog could get a hold of or such that needs to be avoided for safety reasons. Our dogs are ALWAYS on a leash when outside and I keep their harnesses on inside just in case I have to grab them from heading out the door, when not supposed to go (I’ll take it off to bath them or occasionally when they go to sleep for the night, but generally their soft harness is always on). My one doggie is an older senior dog, but she’s still quick as a whip, she loves to get outside and if she got loose, she’d run everywhere and would love to get away to explore! We always locate where ours dogs are at, before we open the door and since there’s only one door that we have to come in and out and three large steps to get down and another three steps to get out, it has been fine. Being that we’re full-time RV-ers, it has been a major concerns of ours with our one doggie possibly getting out and escaping, one because there are dangers that are in the woods and campgrounds, as well as cars and even with a gps tracker the fact is, it would be still be dangerous and a stressful strain to try and go after her to try and find her. So, I keep a collar and a harness on her and I have created a method of putting the harness on in a more secure fashion (where the opening of the harness is at the top and clipping the harness loop and the collar loop clipped together with the leash clip). Neither has to be real tight and some harnesses you may have to back your dog into it (to have that clip up top). When out walking with her, if she sees another dog or something that excites her, she cannot easily get out of the harness (not without allowing me to have enough time to pick her up). We travel where there are all kinds of wild life and critters, that can pose potential risks. If we go hiking with our dogs, we keep them short leashed and I always walk with a tall rod or wood staff and use it to tap or move brush or bushes out of way and tap the path in front of us (for anything that could jump out). The staff also could serve me in an emergency, if I had a ankle injury while isolated.

Be patient and if can do trial runs: Give things time to adjust and remember that RV travel is likely brand new for your dog (pet). Some may adjust immediately, but may also need some time to become fully comfortable in the RV or the camping scenarios. If you plan to bring your dog along for a long trip, consider practicing with a few shorter trips first. Perhaps you can plan to spend a few hours in the RV while it is parked in your driveway or? This way, your dog (pet) can get familiarize with the new environment. You could even plan to spend a night in the RV ahead of time, so that your dog knows what to expect. Every dog (pet) can be different and you will recognize and learn to know the best for your pet and create a plan of action that works best for you too. Then, things can become more predictable and enjoyable, just as we have created for our dogs making sure they eliminate, get fresh air and exercise (on somewhat of a consistent schedule). Along with all I have shared here, as it’s been so rewarding to have their companionship and their love, as they enjoy camping and RV-life with us and we love their cuddling, snuggling and sleeping in our bed with us in the RV!!! 😃

RVing with your dog (pet) may seem like a hassle, but it’s worth having them around and many of us have support animals and need them. Most dogs are fairly adventurous and enjoy experiencing new things with their owners. Learn the hazards where you are going. Learning the how and what’s in being prepared. This will help make things less anxious during travel. Do research and thoughtful considerations, plan out your trips and lifestyle that both you and your dog (pet) will enjoy together.

Thanks again for taking the time to read this post and safe and smart travels to all !! As always, any questions about anything mentioned here or about having your pets with you in your travels. Let me know.

C .Star. V

Transitioning to FT-RV-life

“Our FT RV-Life was not fully planned all out, but totally happened! As seniors still wanting to live-the-life we waited for, even on a smaller budget” .

In the Picture above was when we first bought our RV, however we weren’t able to embark and to start any journeys or even live in the RV, at that time because we were still in the midst of selling our house and trying to plan our transition from a large-size home to an RV, just under 300 sqtft.

Although this was our third time buying an RV, (we hadn’t been able to utilize the past two) and we had to sell them. The timing just was not good as we had experienced some crisis with aging parents and our children, but this time we were determined and able to make a go of it and did . More on my Instagram http://www.instagram.com/cstarsrvvibes/

In buying an RV, as in anytime making a large purchasing or a purchase of something that has to be maintained (and in this case lived-in), one must not be in a rush, must research, read reviews and look at many different ones at different places . We did, but had still not found one that we really wanted and could afford. Time was crucial and pressing at this point and it was right in the middle of the Covid pandemic, our income had been drastically cut, my husband now had been dealing with his disabilities progressing and could no longer go to work, we just lost our eldest and beloved dog, and then out of necessity, but (fortunately something that we always wanted to do) we had to find an RV as we may never get a chance again..

At that time there was also, starting to be a scarce amount of used RV’s, as RV-ing had begun to get very popular again, but we had to make a decision. My husband and I each, may have wanted a different type of RV, but the cost, availability and the timeframe pressed on. We decided on a used class A 31UL Jayco precept. There are so many different types of RVs and any one of them we would’ve been happy with and made it work, as we’ve had different types before, but this specific one met our needs (at that time)..

In choosing a class A motorhome we found comfort and ability since we also have two dogs RV-ing with us. Having the Class A or a Class C, we would be able to take the dogs with us when we travel, opposed to having to hatch on to the back of a truck and pull the RV, wherever you go and be inside your truck to travel (we once had one like that, but it’s just a personal preference any-type can be enjoyed). So, now we all can be in the RV, as we travel from place to place, whether we end up towing our vehicle or not..

The type of vehicle, tent or living component that you’re going to be in, what you can afford to have and keep-up and with, where you’re going to choose to park, camp, live and your ability of and in your income, will have the biggest bearing on what kind of lifestyle you’ll have. Yet, it comes down to your real needs and no matter the budget, everyone can do and see much of the same things… Although, it could be in various ways, as these choices and situations have different needs and requirements, but they also have similar needs and requirements. Since, RV parks, campgrounds, state and city parks offer utilities and amenities and some don’t. So, everyone will adjust and manage in their own way and for what their needs will be.

There are even RV parks that are just like apartment complexes for RVers with a community of its own and many perks such as WiFi, trash pickup, propane refills, a general store, a fitness center and a laundry room. Some places are just available land, that have resources for parking and camping no matter what type of vehicle or tent set-up you have, but some don’t have any various utilities to use. Boondocking usually falls into a category that you will need to be able to be more self -sustainable and Moochdocking could be if you are able to stay at someone’s backyard or land and are able to plug into electricity and maybe use shower or bathroom facilities!!!

For us, I myself, have moved and changed my residence’s many-a-times. For most of us, each and every time we go through a move, it seems that no matter, how much we plan, how much time, money or help we have nor how much or little of stuff we have, it’s never an easy process..

Moving into this Fulltime RV-ing endeavor had been a bit challenging, moving from a 5/5, almost 4,000 sqft house to a 31 ft, 270 sqft. RV. Yet, moving or relocating in itself can be overwhelming, as it is a process when moving and downsizing and that alone is a process within a process.

Here below I’ve listed just a quick general process. I have other posts that go into more depth of downsizing and moving). One should try and go through this process at least 6 months prior to moving. (I started 2 yrs before and I still had a difficult time) so, the sooner the better!

1. First the uncluttering and this can consist of going through each closet, each drawer and each and every space in each room.

2. Evaluating what all you have, which includes your clothes, your shoes and all your stuff, that means even going through paperwork, papers saved, file cabinets and just everything all around your home. Cleaning out things that are garbage or old and outdated (such as: food, spices, medicines, beauty products etc.) things that are broken (either fix or repair them or if beyond repairing that you’ll ever find the time to do) and things you don’t really need or won’t be really needing (think in terms of what needs for your end goal and what path you are going onto).

3. Re-organize (re-group) all your things according to what they are, where they need to be, put or stored (for convenient usage or easy accessibility or if not being used that often stored away). Example: kitchen (what goes into kitchen area) and what will go in each room, bedrooms, bathrooms, office, closet, drawers and if you have a garage as well. Also, important documents saved or wanting to save (put in file cabinet or file boxes and with file folders marked of the contents or what it is pertaining to.

4. Once all of your possessions and the clutter is gone through (good time to get rid of things you’re not going to use or not going to take with you to your new residence) getting a storage for things you want to keep and reorganize them for when and if you need them (seasonal clothing , tools etc.).

There are so many different ways, opinions, opportunities and methods to any of our journeys in life.. just as there are parks, places and people that go camping and RVing. No matter whether one is a part time RVer, camper, weekend warrior or fulltime RV-living. Many people are always willing to offer each other advice and information about transitioning or on certain equipment needs, personal needs, lifestyle needs and about the amenities, utilities, campgrounds, camping sites and more..

“There is no one-way or set-ways to Rv-ing, just tips, tricks & helpful guidelines”

C .Star. V

Pets & Allergies

In over 6+ decades of living life, I’ve always being around animals and compassionately raised them with loving care. I wanted to share my experience and information in hoping it will help others on all timeframes or financial budgets, that are coping or trying to find methods of managing and curing issues for their pet.. I am not a veterinarian and these are just guidelines, since I have learned much over the years through my pets being diagnosed and treated by professional veterinarians, holistic veterinarians and my own hands on experience. As you read there will be protcols, practices and products listed.

On this post, I mainly focusing on dog-pets (fur-babies), but the basic information and tips could apply to other animals, it is just that the products & protocols would have to be “That type of animal-friendly ones”. Such as a products suggested in this book for dogs, may not be suitable for “Other” animals and that would have to be considered and researched first, to make sure of the safety of using them on any other pet, other than a dog.

PLEAE READ THROUGH TO THE END, rather than just search for an ailment and/or a quick fix or relief and (I list all prorocols at the end section of this post). Yet,there is a specific cycle, timeframe and method in managing, curing and healing issues. I know that there is a lot to read on here, but there could be a protocol or method that you may have been trying or doing, but something small or significant you could have missed or are doing or not doing a certain way that could be more beneficial (which you can further research).

The biggest issue is discovering what the problem is, then using the correct protocol, as in knowing which protocol, when, how much, how often and why? Most importantly, one must use preventative measures, but also have protocols ready to use and take action before things get out of hand. As (skin, sores, rash or whatever) needs to have a process and allowed time to heal. That is why is very important that you read through this information to get a better basic and logical understanding of the causes and the process of healing for your pet and to apply the appropriate protocol. I am going to bring you through this information, help identify the problem and then will list remedies and how to apply them.

Any issue can spread fast and get very unmanageable, so you must consider taking action immediately with proper veterinarian care to halt any issues before it becomes overwhelming and way out-of-hand or cause additional damage. Often some major illnesses or symptoms can get misdiagnosed (getting a second opinion is always good). More common issues have been remedied by various types of allergy medicines or shots offered to help alleviate several allergy issues (especially severe or reoccurring) these can help to take control of the situation, but in most cases the root of the issue will still need to be addressed & managed. Be aware of what the veterinarian is offering or prescribing (take time to look it up, as some medications come with high risks).

There are times, when issues can even take weeks or months to get resolved. Some issues may need be managing every now & then or for long term. As the cycle of healing and possibly re-triggering or re-irritation and injury can occur, making this process of healing a cycle that seems to have no end. Difficult is the chore, keeping the outside of your pet from having issues, while feeding them what’s causing it from the inside. Even though I do prefer a more holistic , homeopathic or natural approach, there are times when traditional medicines are urgently need to get the issue managed and under control and then more natural remedies can be of assistance with any additional common occurrences. I explain and go over usage of homeopathic, holistic and traditional remedies more as you read.

We need to help our pets because they can’t heal themselves. Sadly, some pet owners just give-up as they start to feel they have exhausted all means, trying to help their pets. Yet, we can help our pets feel better, get healthier, even cured and at the least manage their issues, so they can live out their lives healthier, happy and comfortable. It’s just that often, many will look for a quick fix, such as a pill or shot to give to their pets in order to help them get cured and over whatever issue, allergy or symptoms they are having. Some issue can be managed by allergy shots , but finding the root to the issues can take time and trials. There are some issues that are life threatening, but many are not, many-a-times it’s just getting the issue under control, some may require using and repeating protocols daily, weekly or monthly in order to initially start to fully heal.

We want our pets to feel good & be healthy: When they are suffering we suffer too. Most importantly, one must have protocols ready to use and take action before things get out of hand. If trying to remedy the symptoms or issue and it there is no progression in healing, one must not hesitate in getting professional advice. Although, certain issues are common and can be dealt with at home with the right care and usage in the correct order to help heal and cure. Some issue are not life threatening, but may require repeating protocols daily or weekly.

Lovingly desperate, we try and help our beloved pet. Many of us have relied upon a veterinarians to help diagnosis our pets issues and give us help and advice, so we make trips to the vets office and it can get costly. Often we will take our pets to the same veterinarian regularly, so we feel they should know our pet and be able to help in assisting. Most Veterinarians (just as regular doctors) are “Practicing Medicine(s)” and are governed by using traditional practices, they will offer many products and are able to offer expensive treatments, surgeries and may prescribe many types of medicines (which may or not be needed). In all fairness, for the most part, they truly are trying to help your pet. Regardless, though you should always be aware of and ask what your veterinarian is offering or prescribing, some products (shampoo’s conditioners, allergy shots and etc.) are so strong and good for emergencies or in case needed, but not as they may precribed and other are high risk medicines, such as steroids (used only in emergencies) and must be given a specific way and weaned off carefully (some pet owners will resort to any of these out of desperation).

However, too many medications, products and practices could possibly be overmedicating your pets and the issues. Trying (using) all the products, medicines and chemicals, all together or one after another can begin to unbalance the natural mantle of the skin (and the system of your pet). All of this will not allowing or give your pets skin a chance or time to renew itself, as it takes time for the skin to shed cell layers and heal. All of this tends to create cycles that seem like an endless battle as the internal system of your pet, trying to process all of it and heal becomes full of built-up extra toxins, that now must be filtered through the pets system and out through the pores.

It can all be an up-and-down roller coaster and exhausting for pet-owner and pet coping with the issue of skin or health. Meanwhile, we must keep our pets from getting to affected areas by having them wear e-collars, caring and watching them, so they don’t break open their healing areas. As we find the solutions, proper protocols and patiently wait for them to heal. I have found successful managing solutions and healing cures, as I will continue to explain on this page.

In any disease or illness; diagnosis, timing and treatment is crucial: Reading through the information will help you to understand this and why, action are to be taken immediately, not to put off, get the symptoms under control and ultimately find the root and cause of the problem. Which most of the time is linked to what your pet is eating, but could be something in their environment or a bug bite ( flea & etc.).

#1-Reconizing the symptoms: Food and Environmental allergies can have similar symptoms, it is helpful to be able to recognize the issue as in, is it a rash, flea or bug bite, a hotspot sore, yeast buildup, skin has musty smell, a bump, dandruff, fur loss etc. Everyday, make a habit of rubbing and petting your pet all over, not just because it feels nice to your pet, but this is one way to feel or take notice of any bumps, sores and such. Brushing your pet more often helps keep their coats clean, removes excess hair, dead skin and may alert you to an issue. Often you may only notice one small spot or area as your pet’s hair could be covering part of or much of the area of the issue and you may not be able to see, just how large it is or how bad it is. There seems to be “Cycles” in within the symptoms, issues and healing as the onset or 1st noticing of an issue, then (with proper protocol), it begins to heal or is in a healing process, then healed. During these cycles, the healing process can cause symptoms of itchiness itself. Along with anything that has not been ruled-out and eliminated, so there’s re-triggering or re-irritation as the cycle continues.

#2-Is it reoccurring, been diagnosed or new issue: Most of the time, when we notice or recognize something wrong or ailing our pets, we will make an appointment to take them to a professional veterinarian to be examined, checked out and have the issue evaluated. This helps us to find out and know what it is and also be able to recognize it again, if it should happen again (today some may goggle the internet for a quick reference), but it is best to have your pet’s issue evaluated by a professional (you may even get a second opinion). Once you know what you are dealing with, there are some issues you can remedy and care for by yourself at home, by using the proper protocols. Since there can be many various protocols, knowing the proper ones & in what order to use them, how often and why, can all be crucial.

#3-Taking the appropriate action: Use logic and if the issue is taking to long to remedy or heal, get professional help. If it is something that can be remedied at home, recognize what’s going on from the symptoms and at least get it under control, before it gets out of hand. There is food allergies and food intolerances. Food allergies can be seen through symptoms occurring shorty after eating a certain food and food intolerances can be after a certain amount of food given (so it may not show up unless feed continuously) and then it triggers when reaches a level that is not tolerable. That’s the tricky part, since we need to feed our dogs, but it could be also bug-bites, fleas, animal or pet-sibling bites or scratches (from them playing with each other) to the emotions of your pet. Any of these can play a large role in causing skin allergy symptoms. Be aware that your pet can scratch an issue on the skin (even if they can’t get to it, as in a area on their back, they will rub themselves on something to itch it) and irritate to the point of bleeding from; a tiny irritations (inside fur) or even an internal issue that goes unnoticed or unseen can start to cause damaged to your pets skin and in turn cause yeast or infections to grow and multiply. Out breaks of hotspots, dermatitis or other skin conditions can occur. We often try or put too many remedies or such on the skin trying to heal it, but it takes time to see results and you may have to repeat the use of some homeopathic or holistic remedies as the issue is healing, posssibly everyday for several days or every other day, as the skin also needs time with nothing on it at some point, to give time to ensure the healing process.

The culprits and finding remedies can be challenging:  Often certain medications, products or specific foods can cause yeast build-up to form and cause the itching, scratching, biting. Flea bites, bug or insect bites and other outside environments can cause your pets to start the scratching and create bigger issues. Products (such as strong bug repellants) sprayed upon us or them and around our pets surroundings and even pesticides inside or on the grass can also cause triggers or reactions. As well as, improperly or over washing our pets skin (unbalancing the PH) as normally dogs only need to be bathed (with soaps or shampoos) once every 2-3 months or even just 2-3 times a year depending on dogs living environment unless they roll in dirt or mud and such (but if rolled in grass) they can be rinsed off with clean water, wiped down with dog-safe wipes, others can have added ingredients that may irritate your pet.

Yeast infection can be blamed for a lot: Yeasty build-up tends to be a common culprit and issue. As in even the healing process of issues, yeast plays a part to some degree. What a pet is fed (and too much of what our dogs are being fed), is causing this imbalance amount of yeast to develop an (naturally some yeast is present, but can get imbalance rather easily) and once within the system (and gut) it’s a cycle that can be difficult to get a grip on as it can cause a host of various issues and symptoms. Many-a-times yeasty issues can develop from common or minor things such as your pet being overly hot and sweaty or been given too much of the same foods and treats that built-up intolerance and gut issues (even healthy ones, as too much of an ingredient or proteins in additions to feeding them healthy protein foods). Often to completely heal these issues, eliminating much of what is causing it (once you can rule it in or out) and using appropriate protocols . Many holistic and homeopathic products and protocols need to be applied more than once a day and for several days or ever other day, but the skin needs a chance to have nothing applied to it for a day or so as well, at some point in the healing process to air-it-out (so-to-say) as it gives a chance to heal over. Meanwhile, use an e-collar so that your pet can not get to the area needing to heal.

Flea medication and remedies: I found most dogs are automatically put on flea, tick and heartworm medicines by their veterinarian (just as my dogs had). This will cut down on bites from the fleas causing these issues and that’s important. Yet, even when they were on the flea, tick and heartworm medications and there were no fleas, the allergy symptoms would still appear, so it could be a reaction originally to a flea bite, a trigger or build-up of something else. Flea and heartworm medicines can be a vital measure if you live in areas that are prone to fleas ans mosquitos or if you are needing to takce control over a flea investation, but other than that there are alternate ways to control fleas and mosquitos. Flea and heart-worm medicines can become toxic to many dogs, as the suggested for the weight of the dog is such a large variance (such as 10-20lbs or 40-60lbs) and that can be a big difference if you dogs weight is on the lesser poundage. However, using with caution, the weight specific monthly flea and heart-worm medications (combo guard and trifexix I’ve used) can be essential in keeping your dogs skin from fleas, insects bites and other issues. Flea collars can also be very irritating and may not be effective or could be harmful to your pet.

Nutrition is the key in all good health: It is proven that nutrition in humans is utmost important in fighting against illness and disease and improper nutrition can cause weak immune systems and yeast. So, this is also a factor for our pets as well. In researching about the way dry kibble pet food is processed and some with horrible chemicals, many even have problems with mites, as they come in large quantities that sit there for a while and a lot of them are just not that fresh. As well the dry kibbles (canned dog-food too), could be lacking in the nutrition that dogs need; as commercial dog foods are convenient and could just be filling our pets up, but not always giving them the nutritional needs dogs really should have and ingredients in them can cause digestive issues and yeast buildup over time. Plus, dogs (as in any pet), may be needing certain vitamins, proteins or such to help with a deficiency. Many dog foods seem to have Ingredients such as : wheat, meat or meal by-products of (some kind), yeast, some various protein break downs and parts of chicken and other animal meats and fish, among various starches, carbs, fruits, sugars, soy, corn and other types of fillers and these seem to cause a lot of skin issues and digestive issues over time, since it’s not what dogs should be eating (and at the least, not everyday). Now, if feeding feral dogs or dogs that are in shelters and out on streets just trying to survive this maybe a situation where kibble food is used, but for more domesticated dogs they will eventually need better nutrition.

*It all made sense, since the kibble dry dog foods, fillers, by-products, (animal-meal) chemicals, wheat, corn, chicken, (carbs), certain grains, starchy vegetables and whatever else, in the dog or human foods that was given to my dogs in which may additionally contain carbs or starch, yeast (bread, chips, bagels etc. and even peas and potatoes, dairy, fruits and sugars) and these seem to trigger and contribute to the build-up of yeast and allergies symptoms. Plus, where the commercial dog food is made; there could be other products that are manufactured out of that same factory your pet may have allergies too. As well, what is fed by the farmers that raise the animals used for protein in the pet foods, could be things that your dog may be allergic to. This can cause such confusion because the a product you could be feeding your pet may not be suitable, then you try another, but you still won’t get any better results. (I had also read that changing your pets food after several years to one similar that agrees with them and rotate back to original (if it agreed with them) just to give variety and tolerance). So their system doesn’t create an allergy from too much of one thing all the time and become intolerant to it, but not sure if all that is totally true. One must also be cautious of ingredients in the dog cookies and treats, that can cause issues.

Allergy & Antibiotic shots often help: I had tried everything traditional from all the advice of several veterinarians to other dog owners, but nothing was actually curing them (as getting the outside symptoms managed and healed, but the root of the cause was still questionable). There can be relief from the allergy symptoms (itching, scratching and sores), with several different types of allergy shots, but they’re not all very safe to use and many pet owners will end-up using any of them for their dogs, out of desperation. My vet used a shot called Cytopoint (a protein not a steroid) and a shot called Convenia or Cefovecin (antibiotic) when things got to out of control and unmanageable (where the symptoms were causing wounds or raw skin). Even though it had been recommended to have this shot given to my pet on a weekly or monthly basis, that is not necessary (O waited to see if the shot worked and hoew long ot lasted) I would only use the Cytopoint shots when needed, usually every 3-6 months or even just once a year (while managing in between) or when and if there was an actual outbreak of a flare-up as, I was trying to pinpoint the culprit. Allergy shots such as Cytopoint, helps with managing the symptoms, yet, “it does not preventing the culprits that are triggering them”.

*Your pet may be good and they may not need another allergy shot for months. This will all depend upon if still feeding foods that is building yeast or re-visiting a grassy area that could have pesticides or pollen and beginning of new allergy seasons or possibly if pet is being feed some other treats or being bit by fleas, having a yeast issue already or in contact with what triggers the flare-ups once again. Anything of those, could be triggering the allergy. Therefore, the protocol can be deceiving and frustrating, as you may have seen results and there can be flare-ups again. Don’t rule out mosquitoes and fleas, even if your pet may not have had an issue with fleas, they could pick-some-up outside or at some other area or place or even an insect bite (ant or mosquito) and this can prompt them to scratch and itch to cause skin irruptions and these can trigger the flare-ups once again.  The biggest dilemma in healing any issue is to know what to be using as the correct protocol and in which one, when, how much, how often and why?

Patients, Protocols and Diligence are needed:  Even if you had or have your pet’s food-allergies under control, food or environmental elements could possibly trigger allergies again and vice-versa. Either way and whichever it all has to process through your pet’s system. Meanwhile, in trying to help manage your pets symptoms; it often takes a pet having to consistently wearing an E-collar, even when using healing protocols. Especially if you are not able or going to be around your pet, to keep them from getting to their irritated or healing skin. The E-collar can be taken off when your dog is going to eat or drink and to go out on walks to go potty or when they go to sleep (unless you are able to watch or listen for them getting at their affected area), but it may be needed while you sleep, so they won’t be getting at the affected areas. 

Lack of Exercise Boredom and Emotional & Stress Issues:  When dogs are bored, their needs not met or have emotional or anxiety stress, they will do what comes natural to entertain themselves (chewing, digging, licking) or even do other things that can be annoying or misbehaving (it’s not their fault). They can not do the things they need by themselves and they must rely upon us to provide and help them. Dogs (like any other animal) have basic needs that must be met, such as; of attention and care, to be fed, some treats, getting out to eliminate to go potty and getting enough exercise and rest. Besides getting the basic pet needs to get enough attention and exercise (based on breed, size, activity & age) they usually will be more likely to enjoy resting, being more calm, content and on a schedule of some type. If a pet doesn’t feel well (for any reason), they tend to self-soothe themselves. If your pet is already having allergy symptoms or is feeling stress or bored, this can be a cycle that may create issues for them and their skin. To help boredom, anxiety or stress there are various ways and things pet owners can get or do.

*Practice a routine each day that you will do for your pet: this helps your pet to know and be able to depend upon it. Such as; a schedule or routine, to take them out to potty and making sure they go (watch for their clues that the need to go) and a feeding schedule 2x’s a day and going out to potty (may be 2-3 or 4x’s a day) regardless, doing these at(or near) a specific time each day, so they know they can depend upon it. There are also many dog items such as, snuffle mats, interactive dog toys, dog puzzles and many other items. Pets may also suffer from aches and pains in joints and other areas from various reasons and there are supplements for those (such as dasuquin with MSM, Dog CBD) or dog calming chews can also help calm a distressed or pet with or having anxieties.

Getting to the root of the problem:  Common culprits of causing allergies and other health issues: kibbles dry food and many of the ingredients in them, corn, wheat, grains, soy and certain animal proteins due to intolerance (obesity and lack of exercise) and some environmental elements. My dogs developed an intolerance to any foods with wheat, chicken or high amounts of proteins (given each day in foods & treats) and honestly at first, I was in denial of this). I just did not understand, why my dogs could not eat chicken, while other dogs could without an issue. So, I was making an effort finding dog food, dog cookies and treats with no wheat or chicken (as I was battling to heal my dogs). It was one thing to find grain-free and even corn and soy-free, but chicken and wheat-free as well, that was difficult to find. As many pet foods will even say; beef or salmon as their main ingredient, but in reading the ingredients, chicken, wheat, yeast or starch is in there and in some kind of form and that also goes for every dog cookie or dog treat out there. Pet food companies realized majority of the commercial pet foods available had not been sufficient and created freeze-dried animal raw organs as pet-food toppers (there are various ones and not all the same quality, they may have too many ingredients or ingredients that will buil-up issues if used for food toppers daily ). As far as dog bones and treats, you may find an all-beef-bully-sticks for treats and bone chews, as they have a large selection at many of the pet stores, but they can get pricey and some hard bones are only good for major chewers or large breeds that don’t have soft mouths. I did finally find some suitable dog cookie, treats and healthy crunchy bone treats and with some of them, I use a garden plant-pruner cutting tool this helps to cut them in half or so, to divide them up and last more days. I post them on my dogs instagram @hairalwaysonmy floors. I also have most of the products mentioned here on my shop-it “Pet Care” page linked to the products, so you can see, purchase or find them.

In the the Elimination of specific foods given: In using an elimination diet, remember to write down the dates and what you fed them (could use a calendar you can write on). I eliminated chicken, wheat, and most grains from my dogs diets. To further the research into my dogs reason for intolerances or allergies, I began additionally avoid giving them anything that was or had starches, soy, yeast, carbs, grains, fruits, sugar, dairy and other fillers, in it (boy are they going to miss those pieces of bagels I used to give them!) I also gave them probiotics after they eat their meals, as I tried this protocol to clear their gut as this is where, I felt all the issues may coincide. The elimination diet supported my own suspicions that in order to clear up digestive issues, skin conditions, allergy symptoms and breakouts that the dogs were having; it was going to have to be cleared and healed not only in battling it from the outside of the dog (with the protocols to heal and clean the skin issues), but also with combating it from the inside (as we-humans also do this to help ourselves), from inside the gut. Whereas, I had already seen and had success with healing the wounds on the outside with certain healing products. Now to heal the inside gut. As, obesity, malnourished, imbalanced gut and a weak or compromised immune system can also cause toxins that come out through the skin. Just stay away from things dog just shouldn’t eat, regardless of what is offered, advertised and out on the shelves or online for us to buy (whether the social media internet, google, veterinarians or others, might say that it’s “safe for dogs to eat”). Our dogs ancestors may have been wolves, but our pets are domesticated and it gets a little trickier because their systems, emotions, environments, owners behaviors and surroundings can all vary and all have specific needs, and they are not the same as a wild dog outside. For each dog may have different levels of activities and tolerance to proteins and various grooming needs, sensitivities, triggers of allergies and the owners availability of funds and time.

*NOTE* The tricky part to all of this is, while trying to figure-out what is causing issues with your pet (whether food or environment), especially when your pet already has an allergy or flare-up. So, unless the allergy symptoms or issue was already in the process of healing or clearing-up, it will make it difficult to distinguish what’s causing it or the true tolerance of what foods, treats or environment caused it. This is where I feel it may become most frustrating, so with this in mind; if your pet is healing while on the elimination-dieting (restrictive diet as described above and below), then keep on the same foods that seem to be healing them (any dog treats as well must be figured out, as a specific kind of treats may be causing it). If not healing try another single animal protein and only for 3 days at one time, then change the protein (as too much protein all at once for too long a period of time can also cause issues ( of food intolerances) in some dogs, especially if they re not super active, then repeat. So, be careful what is given to your pet to eat (be cautious what other people in your home and around them may give them as well). Also keep on-hand treats that do not cause allergies and upsets with them and if your pet begs for food while you are eating and you are tempted to give them something, have them sit away from you and give them a treat of theirs.

The main feeding protocol when using Elimination Diet: I only fed my dogs cooked animal proteins, beef (med to med rare) preferably steak-meat cut up and cooked lamb and cooked fish, salmon is a good one (fresh fish is always better than canned), but I keep on hand canned (the lowest sodium ones) salmon, mackerel, sardines plain in water and occasionally give them cooked shrimp, cooked ground beef or pork. I already knew they could not have chicken and to find out whatever meat protein they could tolerate and not be allergic to I had to try other ones individually, I also added a little amount of some non-starchy veggies; such as chopped up carrots, green beans or tiny bit of kale (stems removed and only give kale occasionally ) it can be healthy, but it can be very had on to the system and broccoli (florets-tops not stem part) once in awhile, as it can be gassy for their digestion (I had to mix in the veggies and cover it with the meat or fish protein for my picky dog). I did this for 2 weeks faithfully (may need to do this process 4-6 weeks). I would feed 1 type of animal or fish protein at a time) and I saw good results . I had to still be aware of any bug bites, as this causes flare-ups all over again.

*NOTE* After fully getting it under control and their skin had all cleared up, I kept doing this for a couple more weeks and they had not been excessively scratching, itching, licking or biting. I kept giving them the animal proteins and occasionally a non-starch veggies. I eventually added a dog food (called “Solid Gold” beef canned), staying away from dry-food kibbles, but there are several grain-free food, ‘limited ingredient dog food’ choices (just be careful to check ingredients, there can be some ingredients in them that over time may build yeast, such starchy veggies, yeast etc..). I adjusted the portions appropriately (to their size and activity levels) and kept giving them the fresh cooked animal meats or fresh fish and rotating the cooked meats then fish (once in awhile I also give, tuna fish, salmon or mackerel in the can) and non-starchy veggies as toppers to the canned dog food.

*NOTE* In the event that I did not have fresh or frozen cooked meats or fish to add to my dogs food as toppers, I would always keep on hand (Nulo brand freeze dried meat organs) and added some of those crushed up and some whole sprinkled upon their canned solid-gold brand dog food. Every now and then when I didn’t have fresh meat or fish to add to their meals I would sprinkle some of the Nulo anyways, just so they could remember getting the fresh as well, but when I only had the Nulo and they would still enjoy it. Occasionally, (only as a treat now and then) I gave them some Greek plain yogurt there’s only 1 brand I found around here that was safe enough called FAGE plain 2% Greek yogurt. I found that this one was okay to give to dogs, it has no sugar or sugar substitutes that are dangerous to dogs or bad stuff added. Once in awhile I would put blueberries and strawberries in it too (you can grind them up in a blender and then mix it into their foods if they won’t eat it alone. I also would mix coconut oil with tumeric herb powder (only a small amount as 1/8 to 1/4 for every 10pds of a dog, but use caution even in larger dogs as there could be intolerance to it and use only occasionally). It would make a paste and I would add it to their food once in awhile if needed for inflammation, but not everyday. I have also given supplement-vitamins of fish oil or a fatty acid such as omega-3 or omega-6 oil (you can get some prescribed from your veterinarian), they can also get these vitamins from feeding fresh or canned salmon, sardines or other canned fish. I also always keep on-hand, pure canned pumpkin (plain) this can help if stools are runny or diarrhea, give until better. Yet, if diarrhea is not better within 2 days, get your dog to the doctors to have checked. I have also have given my dogs a safe and pure Aloe Vera (a safe and specific one) that I list below in protocols.

*Make sure to write down the dates and what you had fed your pet, use the elimination-diet and the reintroducing of proper foods to them, so to rule out culprits and to figure out how your pet reacts to foods, envitoments and etc. This helped me pinpoint what they had flareups from or not, as I added or tried another protein or whatever treats (I didn’t need various differnt things to feed my dogd (pet), I just eeded to know what would cause them to have issues and I eliminated that totally (that’s how I figured out the chicken and wheat was a culprit for my dogs), but eventually there were flare-ups and allergy syptoms that occurred from a flea bite or a mosquito or another insect.. Even if it was just one or one bite.

*I can say, after using these protocols, it has been more manageable and my dogs have clear skin, shiny coats and are not excessively itching, scratching or licking at all (only to groom themselves or an occasional self-soothing when trying to calm themselves). Not that my dogs (or any pet) will ever not scratch, lick or itch themselves, they do. As my dogs are subjected to insects and such many times, as we do a lot of outside living, but I take precautions. If I ever notice an area that could have been a reaction (to a bug bite, allergy or whatever) or is irritated by my dogs scratching or licking,I clean the area and use whichever protocol needed to help soothe and heal it and it goes away. So, there may be an irritation or skin upset again, even after your pet is healed. “At the least, one can learn to manage these skin upsets and when any may occur, being able to use the proper protocol immediately and to keep it from becoming unmanageable and constantly frustrating or aggravating to either my pet or yourself”.

*I had come to the conclusion, that the elimination diet did help me figure out what foods my dogs were having issues with, but I also learned dogs just should not be eating things that dogs, just should not be eating and certain foods can only be given as one in awhile in small amounts as a treat or eliminated totally, these could be such as, starches (potatoes breard etc), soy, yeast, carbs, grains, sugar, dairy, cheese, yogurt, certain fruits, and other fillers etc..I also realize that some dogs can develop seasonal allergies and could be more sensitive to certain foods and environmental things then other dogs. Some dogs also like to groom themselves more than others and it may appear that they are reacting from allergies, but could be just cleaning themselves. Most often dogs get a bug bite or an irritation from some thing, but it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s an allergy and it may go away within a day or week or so.

*NOTE* There are seasonal blooms in certain months, different areas and variety of household or laundry cleaners, chemicals, dust and other environmental things that may trigger allergies again, even if you had their food allergies under control. If your dog seems to be sensitive to pollen season, avoid going outside in the early morning and late afternoon when pollen levels are at their peak. Cleaning out AC vents is beneficial because pollen, dust mites and dander are allergens known to stick and get trapped in them as well. For all and any-dogs walking in dirty or wet roads, grass (swampy) and grass that pesticides may be on, make sure to clean and wipe their paws coming in from the outside.  Keep lawns mowed and keep pets out of high grown fields. In using any products for allergies or sores, rashes and etc, some of the same remedies can be used on the skin for healing flare-ups from food, pollen, seasonal and environmental allergies with the knowledge of which one, when to use it and how often to apply. If their skin or outbreak is very raw or bleeding, do not use the apple cider /water solution, gently wash with gentle soap for dogs and rinse area, wait a day or two (let it heal some and then use the diluted solution). In the meantime use the aloe vera spray (let dry) and you can also apply skin soothing balm such as this one. If sores or area looks like it could get infected or probably is, after washing and rinsing the area, use the aloe vera (let dry) and apply the muricin 2% ointment. As skin heals for dry skin healing use organic sesame oil and vitamin E oil , but do this only if the skin is dry or hair loss, no oils of any kind should be used on yeastie issues, until healed over a bit or completely healed (to help with dryness or hair loss) because oils trap in moisture and with yeast that’s not good it needs to be kept clen and dry while healing ). Use an E-collar so your pet does not get to it and irritate area even more and gives a chance for skin to heal.

One fix does not fit all or any issue: It’s not one fix or one thing that fixes all, but it’s been much better for my dogs and it has cleared up the constant issues they were having. Remember when using homeopathic, holistic remedies and even with traditional methods, it’s not always going to be a quick fix, as it takes time to see results and you may have to repeat the use of some homeopathic or holistic remedies as the issue is healing, posssibly everyday for several days or every other day, so to give time with nothing applied to it or on it to ensure the consistency for healing. Keep in mind also some sores while healing can get the skin itchy and I use a protocol for that too.

***Here’s the Protocols; that I saw successful results with.****

1. Yeast issues cause fungus, bacteria and issues can grow fast: I’ve had success with Apple Cider Vinegar also known as ACV (I use Braggs) any brand must be DILUTED with equal parts of purified water (using a mixture of 1/2 apple cider vinegar and 1/2 purified water) put into a spray bottle or make enough in cleaning larger areas, such as a body rinse (even after shampooing) to balance skin from cleansing (careful not to get it into their eyes) and use towel to pat dry or you can apply with square cosmetic cotton pads where needed and once area is dry in addition you can apply the skin soothing balm . If their skin or outbreak is very raw or bleeding, do not use the apple cider /water solution, gently wash with a gentle dog soap and rinse, wait a day or two and if the issue has been caused or is yeastie issue (let it heal some and then use the diluted solution). In the meantime use the aloe vera spray (let dry) and you can also apply skin soothing balm by this company. If sores or area looks like it could get infected or probably is, after gently wash and rinsing the area, use the aloe vera (let dry) and apply the muricin 2% ointment and you can use the skin soothing balm. As skin heals for dry itchy-skin use organic sesame oil and vitamin E oil, but only if the skin is healed a good bit or on area of hair loss that needs hair to grow back. Do not use oils of any kind son yeastie issues until healed over completely because oils trap in moisture and with yeast and that is not good, it needs to be kept clean and dry while healing . Use an E-collar , this way your pet does not get to it and irritate area even more and gives a chance for skin to heal. This solution (along with using the e-collar), seems to really work well in managing or curing yeast issues on the skin, outbreaks, paws and yeastie-ear issues (be careful around eyes the solution can sting or burn), if needing to use in that area, use q-tips on precise areas, but do not use a q-tips down in dogs ear).

Yeastie Ears or cleaning Dogs Ears: Do mot use q-tips for cleaning dogs inner ears. If needing to clean in the ears (there is a proper way to do so), the dogs ear canals are “L”-shaped and I use cotton cosmetic squares pads and apply the solution mentioned above (not too saturated), but enough to clean down inside, using a new cotton pads each time, until clean. Some dogs need their ears kept clean more often than other dog. So, always keep a check on them and when you see build-up, clean them. This is for casual cleaning up the ears, it there is a chance your pets ears are infected you need to take them to a veterinarian and get them checked. If after cleaning and the ears get better, but issues come back, it could be not just yeast , but bacterial in system and may need a convenia shot ( antibiotic) to clear it up. If irritation the inside flap of ears, I’ve used Domeboro ( burrows) applied with gauze gently dapping on area. I applied once or twice a day, let alone a day to heal, then as needed. Domeboro ( burrows) can be used on other areas from bug bites to rashes on irritated areas as well.

*NOTE* Remembering to comfort your pet as you apply any types of medicines or healing products. Sometimes there can be a loss of hair from irritations, pet scratching or rubbing areas. Once the affected area is healed (on areas) that need and hair to grow back, I will often massage organic sesame oil, vitamin-e oil or coconut oil, in the area that needs the hair to grow back (has to be done a couple times a day while the hair is growing back), this will help stimulate the area. The e-collars work to keep them from getting at the areas needing to heal, but if it is on their back, your pet may try to itch itself on something and break it open again (you have to watch them closely during the healing period).

2.“Skin Soother” is a balm in a tin, by natural dog company and it works really well for rashes and other skin issues (clean area then gently, rub in well). I’ve used it on their paws in between their paws, carefully around eyes and I’ve used it on different rashes on their bodies it’s been very healing. They have other products as well and they are not only for their paws and noses!!

3. For flea and mosquito control, I have found safe and effective, alternative products that work very well: I use Wondercide spray (just a light mist on them, cover their eyes when spraying it) and Coat Defense, it is a powder that you just sprinkle a little at a time on your pet (a little goes a long way) and rub into their fur and skin, it works real well, I only have to apply it once in awhile or whenever I know my dogs are going to be out where they will be outside for awhile and mosquitoes and flying bugs may bother them. Also by using a flea comb by holding my dogs skin and comb gently all over several times to check for fleas as well as continuing to vacuum to rid them of fleas. If I see an area on my pet that seems to be irritated by the fleas, I will use the same protocol mixture above of the diluted apple cider vinegar (I like Braggs brand w/the mother) and equal parts with purified water, but if the area is raw or bleeding I do not use the apple cider solution (until area is more healed over) I will use my specific aloe soothing spray on the area (let that dry) and if sores or area looks like it could get infected or probably is, use the muricin 2% ointment and as skin heals for dry skin healing use organic sesame oil and coconut oil to help. I always use an e-collar on my dog so that my pet is not re-irritating that area more by licking, biting or scratching it (so it will have a chance to heal). As mentioned, Muricin Ointment 2% it is an antibiotic ointment for dogs (and humans) you can get from your veterinarian or your own doctor it’s used for various issues.

4. I use specific Aloe Vera products : There are four aloe vera products in particular that I use, one is a spray called aloe-first and can be afor humans and vet formula, another is the aloe gelly, the aloe moisturizing lotion and the aloe juice drink-juice called Aloe Vera gel-juice for dogs only the one in yellow bottle, these products I have been using myself and for my pets since the 80’s, it’s the only Aloe Vera product that has been successful in help with healing my pets with many ailments (including my own, my friends and family’s) over the years. I had given these products to anyone that needed it. While being a fulltime RV-er, it was not as easy to do that anymore, so I made a link to purchase and get products mailed out. If interested in them; the link to website and to get a discount as well is https://myhealingaloevera.flp.com, pleae let me know is you have any qiestions about any of this!

5. Clearing the gut and regeneration of new cells: I think this worked so well, by avoiding foods that can build-up and cause yeastie issus or allergies. Some treats I’ve found that my dogs eat daily that did not cause issues, for example: the project hive company dog treats, nature gnaw company bones, great choice company-beef and sweet potato wraps, and as a treat only once in a while, I gave them some yogurt the brand I found for example: is called FAGE plain 2% Greek yogurt, I found that was okay to give them, it has no sugar, dangerous sugar substitute or bad stuff added. In the event that I did not have fresh made meats or fish bought to add to my dogs food, I would always keep on hand, (Nulo brand freeze dried meat organs) to add to their canned solid gold dog food. There are several different brands of these, but this one had lomoted ingredients and my dogs were able to tolerate with no issues.

*Yet, once removing, not using or cutting out, all the things that seemed to be giving them outbreaks, keeping their meals stricter and no human snacks-sharing even of it’s something that dogs could eat (because of those sad eyes begging, give them their own non-allergy approved treat), having them eat only what dogs should be eating and it can became more manageable. I noticed much improvement from limiting taking my dogs in lawn-grassy, swampy, moldy, yeast or pollen possible areas and using dog wipes or spray bottle of water and paper towels or washable flannel wipes, to clean off their paws after being outside. Of you have to leave your pet and they have flare-ups or allergies and may itch and scratch, they need to wear an e-collar or you may get some dog CBD’s because if you are not there to watch them, they ay re-irritate the area and it starts over again.ets a bug bite or has anxieties . She also likes to groom herself a bit. I do take the E-collar off, when my pet is going to eat a meal, if difficult in getting to drink water and if taking my pet outside for a walk. When my pets are trying to heal I often rub them to sleep at night, to relax them and help them get to sleep at night or use dog CBD’s, especially of they have to wear the e-collar while going to sleep (if my dog was healing and had to wear an e-collar to keep away from the area that is healing and if I’m not watching or alseep, and removed the e-collar, she’d be going right to that area!).

It may take some time to figure out the things that are causing your pet (dog) and to find solutions in coping and managing your pet (dog’s) allergy issues. I pray this information will help others. Please don’t hesitate to ask me any questions on what to use and of how much or the process in which protocol in what order to do so, for what issue. You can also check out my Instagram @hairalwaysonmyfloors for my dogs, in the highlights, I show food and treat ideas!

Please let me know what you are going through with your pet, what you have tried and what has not helped or has helped your pet. Thank You!

Feel free to ask me any question you may have about any of the protocols, products or how to use them, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

C .Star. V

Upon Aging Well

“All of what our lives have to offer us, sadly some may never get an opportunity to experience, enjoy or even know of. We need to realize time is most precious. Best to choose to be grateful, experience living, loving, giving and appreciate one’s “Life”, in itself” . C .Star. V

I was the youngest child growing up and even as I got older, I continued to be surrounded by those much older than myself. I did have friends that were my age, but majority of the people around me, were much older than me. In my 20’s and 30’s, I was still surrounded by many friends about or near 10 years older than myself. Then, at one point (which seemed so sudden), I was the oldest within my new friends and others around me. This was definitely an awaking part of my life.

I recall in my 40’s , I visited my 70-year-old auntie, she once had recovered from breaking her hip when she was younger and had just survived cancer for the second time. You could say, she was, what was called (an unsinkable “Molly Brown” type women). On my visit with her, I had asked her, “What is it like being 70 years old and aging? She began to tell me her daily routine..

One of the things that she told me, that stuck in my memory was, when she first gets up in the morning there are days she has a lot of aches and pains, but she heads to a warm shower and lets the warm water therapeutically ease those pains away and then, she feels quite better and starts her day. She told me she enjoys her cup of coffee in the morning and looks forward to a swim in the ocean every day, as water seemed to be her life therapy and she always lived near or on the beach. If she couldn’t get time to go down to the ocean, she would make time to at least go for a swim in the pool (she sure did have a good tan). She ended up having surgery in her late 80’s (due to a old pacemaker, it needed updating sooner as it was older technology), but she did survive it and then passed away not too long afterwards , she lived to 90 yrs old!!

I also observed both my grandmothers and my mother upon their aging, as well. One of my grandma’s, had a faithful routine every day, when she woke-up, she got dressed-up, put on her jewelry, did her hair and make-up and put on her high heels, she did this ‘till the day she passed away, which was close to 90 years old as well. My other grandma, was more of a free spirit, she lived life with such a good sense of humor, she had an infectious laugh and was quite a spontaneous lady. She was always ready to have fun, travel and had such a carefree manner about her, she lived until around 97. My mom was and still is a gracious and cheerful person, even though she was a very strict parent and had been more of an introvert type personality. She worked with the public until she was 78, but then my sibling and I had to tell her she had to stop driving and working (it was for her own safety), she was not too happy about it and she actually worked with a woman that was very active and in her 80’s.

I may not feel as though, I had the type of life or personalities of any of these women in my life, but I had been fortunate to witness such strong and gracious woman figures, in my life. Even though all of them were different, they seem to have had the same mindset. I think that’s what made a difference in the way they aged and why they ended-up seemingly happy, as they lived their lives out. Even though, they grew older and looked different than their younger years, that’s not what came across.. As, they were all happy with themselves, with life itself, cooking, eating and living their lives out to their fullest, no matter what.

With decades behind me now, I thought about what I would say to someone, if they asked me; “What it is like to be getting older and be your age”? Well, I’d have to say, there’s a couple of changes I’ve noticed. One, is in the motivation factor. Whether, I am felling well, in good physical shape and well mental health, “The wanting to do-things-mode” is a bit more relaxed. Not that I don’t want to do things or be active, I’ve never been one to relax (writing helps).

I notice that as you get older it seems as though you can get tired more
easier (especially if you are not kept active, then not sleeping well or if bored). For myself as well as others over a certain age, we may still be active or may still want-to, can and are able to-get-to-do many things, if they’ve always been active and even if not, but the pace and the ‘wanting-to’ may have
changed a bit. As well as, the tolerating of everyday repeated of
excess stress
. When younger the stress level that was once able to be
tolerated, can no longer be tolerated without much toil and possible damage
faster to effect ones health.

The one bothersome thing for me is, “The Greying Hair”. It’s not so much that greying hair can make you look older (that’s one thing), but it’s just the having-to-deal with it and eventually it feels like a chore. So, as I started more greying and even white hair, I decided to color it lighter. I know that graying and white hair is just another part of aging and looks good on so many people, but I wasn’t ready just yet, to have that look.. I had been in the beauty business for years (when I was younger) I changed the color of my hair all the time, yet it doesn’t feel the same when you’re (having to) color it to cover the grey. However, I am grateful and have surely earned those “Grey-Hairs”.

Most people as they age or begin to get older, may complain about aging and what they can’t do or didn’t get to do. This is common, but when it’s in excess (as complaining) about getting older and not being able to be enjoying their life, they seem to get in a mindset of feeling too old and speaking negatively can start to make one feel sick. This most likely is done out of fear, regrets and uncertainty. In addition to, not adhering to their health or accepting and coping beneficially with changes in themselves and their lives. As I said above, people get older, but they still may want to do more (to check off that bucket list), but just as when younger, there are factors that take place. Some factors could be, getting injured or hurt, sometimes it take longer to heal as people age, for others it’s finding their-own-time because they may care for aging parents and have young adult children with grandchildren that they want to spend time with (which can be a good thing) and others may have health issues, financial issues etc.. these can also determine, how much one is able to or can do.

As well, when we compare our lives and ourselves to other people (especially as we age) it can cause deception and inaccuracies of reality. People cope in all different ways to aging, in how they do things and how they look. I personally have never had any enhancements, augmentation’s or any alterations (well I color my hair). I always felt, clean water and the foods we eat (getting proper nutrition) is most vital. Yet, not everyone has access to some things nor are willing to do some things. “Aging is a process within nature, one in which you don’t necessarily need to fight it and yet, not totally be accepting of it”. Sure it’s nice to have a little help and looking better, but you know the sayings “You don’t want to mess with Mother Nature” and “If it’s not broke, then don’t try and fix it” (well a little maybe), but not much or too much.

However, one must be able to pleasantly go with the flow of aging and realize ones limits. As we age our bodies can change physically and mentally, but for some people it’s not as noticeable. We can learn from aging people with a healthy aging mindset and knowing of our limitations. One must be understanding about the aging process and it may take having to re-invent oneself (or ones lifestyle) just as in any other situation in life. Prevention of illness (healthier food & weight), medications needed for treatment, along with extra stressful situations removed, calculations of home safety (to ensure less falling and harmful mishaps) within ones preparations in their life-cycles, habits and routines.

At one point or another we all fear aging, but it is a natural process and it doesn’t have to be a scary, sad or a negative thing. Being more conscientious and keeping careful and healthy in ones, younger years will help with the flow as one ages, into a graceful-ager. Regardless, I think it’s important to learn how to have a positive outlook upon aging (read different articles, blogs and opinions, about aging well). One must have the want-to-gracefully-age, have a mindset to live and enjoy life, along with the appreciation of even ‘being able’, to become a senior person. One must keep finding or creating meaning, joy and purpose in one’s life (accept those things you can’t change & change the things one needs to) and a good sense of humor often helps a lot.

Just keep in wanting to live-out your life, to the very-end, no matter what, while practicing a mindset of being happy and healthy as you go through the decades. No need to have a perfect diet or body, but keep closer to healthier foods, purified water and keeping your body active with stretching and walking, those are a must (adding some free-weights for muscle toning & building), these helps to keep you on the right path. Worry less, by enjoying more, have a hobby that’s fun to you, interact with people that have the same attitude about accepting and enjoying life, while being older. Have some younger, but mature friends, keep your communication with family and friends as this is important (do some traveling) and surround yourself with people that are loving and caring. Teach children to do the same…

As stated, a common factor in aging, is realizing your limits, coping and adapting to what is needed, at whatever age you are.. “What we think we can do and what we want to do, as these may not all coincide”. This seems to happen, even in the best of us humans, whether or not we are healthy, fit and have a healthy lifestyle. Even if, our bodies can still look good and if we can have positive attitudes. To be happy and feel good at any level of our lives, it is important to understand the value of knowing one’s limits (physically and mentally). We may not be able to keep up the same pace of doing things, as we did when we were younger and that’s okay, being able to (only) do some thing’s is better than doing nothing, but this often is the most difficult notion to accept.

This notion has been the most difficult one for me, but I had begun to understand and recognize more of my limits and still, know what I want and can do. An extremely helpful thing to learn is planning out life goal strategies, your finances way in advance, be skilled at something and learn to be resourceful. This helps even when things don’t turn-out as well financially or as planned (I know first-hand). As a stay-at-home-mom, doing my best to raise all our children, while on a budget and later living on even smaller budget, but thank goodness for Plan B and C!! There is no “One thing, fits all” in life. Just learn to make wiser choices! I myself and others I know, could have made a few more wiser choices, but most beneficial in life is about how you end-up to view it all.. So just flow with it and proceed on….

I learned these tactics and to use the strong, gracious and humorous attitudes of my aunt’s, grandma’s, mother, other female and male members of my family, and friends that surrounded me. I’ve lived in many scenarios, had experienced various lifestyles, hobbies, employments and my appearance has varied over the years. I also had a wonderful family doctor growing up (he was an older gentleman) and was retiring when I was in my late teens. In one of the last times that I had seen him, he was saying goodbye to me and told me these three things; 1. Please don’t rely just on vitamin supplements in getting proper nutrition, eat your vitamins within real food. 2. Exercise is a must of some type, it will be needed (wear a watch and start by walking 15 mins. straight), then no matter where we are at walk back and that’s 30 mins! (If you need to start less then do 10 mins and build up from there) and he said it’s not how fast your walk, it’s how far you go! 3. If you, a loved one, your pet or a friend is ever takes ill, has a condition or is diagnosed with something, always promise me to get a second opinion! Those things he told me, were priceless and I shall hope to never forget them!!

I seemed to always keep that thought of myself, as that younger me, the surfer, hippie-ish, beach loving gal (I think my soul relates to that well). I’ve learned to get up early, not only get things done, but to enjoy the earlier hours of the day for myself. “No matter how I feel, I don’t let it take over, how I want to feel” and I may have accepted some of the aging process, but I’m not totally give in…

“In this aging process, the absolute most important thing I’ve learned, within aging and living happier is that one needs to love, make ‘friends with’ and be the ‘strongest supporter’, to that person one sees in the reflection of the mirror”.

C .Star. V

How do you feel about aging? Leave a comment below!!

Have You Started Yet?

It’s seems as though each year we all have more and more we do, want to get done and are kept so busy, at least for most of us..

Time passes by so quickly and often it feels as though, there’s never enough time to do ‘all’ the things we would like to or even need to each day. We can’t seem to get everything done, since it feels as though there’s so much to cram into one day. Then as time passes and if we didn’t get everything we wanted to get done, we may not have properly prioritized or didn’t use time wisely.

Even though we may not want to waste time as, “Time is like money, money is like time” and when we seem to have less of either one, our options start running out”.

Sometimes it’s like a funneling effect as time escapes us. We could start losing our optimism, our positiveness, our outlook and we may start to become very pessimistic. We may even start disliking things around us, even people around us …We begin to lose our focus, our gratitude, our purpose, we start to second-guess ourselves and all of what we may want or wanted.

This can happen, even if you have been doing okay all along. Why?

Mainly because we go through some events or happenings several times. Possibly, until we learn how to get through them and past them, even if they were paths to keep on or not go through again. Although, we may have even got over them, moved on and have been successful or accomplished something (maybe not as much as we wanted to as of yet), but we at least made it through, as we keep looking forward to the next day, next event, next encounter, next experience as it will all be valuable and worth something.

Though we still may find ourselves struggling over again…..struggling with ourselves, our ideas, thoughts and etc. If this happens and when it does, don’t get upset or sad, it is a just a re-check. Re-checking to make sure you keep in control of your life..Making sure you are not repeating your mistakes or having misunderstandings about something and may need another view of it or a second opinion. Seek positive-purposeful advice.

So keep Working ‘at’ something, ‘on’ something or ‘at’ somewhere, in order to get other plans to take flight . Greatness can take time (even learning happiness, takes time) think of all the things that get better  only within time) good opportunities, good careers, expensive beverages..you get the picture!!

Just make sure you come up for air while you are grinding away, take notice where you are going, make sure you have a plan of some kind to keep focused on, even if it has to change a bit. Often, one plan will led us into another one, but that’s ok , as long as it is working out and keeps you going towards your goals and purpose. Get involved with others that have positive-purposeful attitudes and the same goals and interests.

Not all of us will become doctor’s, lawyers, teachers, celebrities and etc.. there is a reason and purpose for all of that and a purpose and reason for each one of us.

Learn a skill, possibly one in helping others. Which can be something that, will even help you have income. No matter how insignificant it might seem to you, there is a greatness in everything..

“Those whom can see ahead of themselves while on the bumpy road, have a better chance of making it through”. Be kind and cheerful no matter what you are working at or working for, good attitudes are terrific virtues and are eventually noticed, rewarded and then duplicated. Our health, mental attitude and coping skills, are concerns we need to continually work upon, for without these we compromise all the quality in our lives….

“Give yourself more Reasons, less Excuses”.

C .Star. V

The “Right” Flow ?

One major lesson that I’ve learned in life is when things are right (or shall I say, when there’s a positive energy flow) it seems to feel right and everything flows. There may be ups, downs and struggles, but they may just be in the course of getting through or they are usually figured out and there’s a pleasant outcome.. ..but when things are wrong they are just that.. wrong..

Now I’m not speaking here about morally right or morally wrong because we should all find that easy to recognize, (but it could apply to those). I’m speaking in terms of basic daily living experiences and situations. For, as we all make efforts in our lives, we could be using our energy on the wrong things, in the wrong way. This is not always easy to recognize because often we just pursue something we want, no matter if whether the signs are there or not. Why do we do this?

Well, because we can..We all, have a free-will to do so..(and of course, if we react upon “Emotion, instead of Logic”).

Let’s not get this confused, with the difficulties and persistence, while pursuing an education, getting help, counseling or persevering through, to achieve something..As the outcomes from our efforts are good. Even becoming employed in a new position or job may feel challenging or daunting. However, often it is just until the duties of the job are learned that it flows better, but trying to choose the right or wrong type of job to begin with can be an issue. Yet, employment can be compared to educating oneself because there is always a benefit in learning something at the end of the takeaway.

Many people give up on learning something or working on something because they start to spend their efforts and then it may feel wrong because it is a bit difficult or too much effort. That can also be true, when people are trying to eat healthier or lose weight .. the key here is to realize the end results.

Yet, there’s another right and wrong situation, which many have found to be upsetting, it is when we (or someone we know) gets involved with others that turns out to be wrong and not going in a good direction. Now getting into the wrong relationships with others (whether just friendships or intimate ones) or just following a path, a direction or social gathering, that could have a bad or have repeatedly bad outcomes, these all can be a bit tricky to deal with.

Sadly, in these situations we take upon the responsibility of making efforts and spending our energy upon something, even if it might not be the best choice. Then we often feel very obligated and committed because we put so much effort in already. Then it can be very difficult to steer away from it or try to change it .. this is where we have to make a decision upon the worth of the situation and the parallel of the intentions of ourselves and of what we are putting the efforts into..

When it comes to relationships, it will also depend on the other person and how they behave and if they are able to improve or take steps in working to correct the wrongs..

The key here is recognizing what the benefits are in being in this relationship  or situation and what kind of repeated unfavorable behavior is being coped with..

Sometimes I hear people say that things were once wrong , but it turned out right and that could be so, depending on what the issues and behaviors were in the first place and what efforts were made. So, things may end up good and turned around for the better , but that’s a whole other story.. For now being more selective with our choices and along with, not getting into a serious or permanent relationship without recognizing what the end results of our live could be for ourselves (and for others) ; as we could end-up dealing with a situation that may turn out wrong.

So, a way to recognize the flow of right from wrong is to consider what the end results could be, what total efforts are being made and the intent to begin with.. Most importantly, don’t make choices, upon emotions or wants. Think first what the outcomes may be and not just for yourself, but for others around you, (such as your family, friends, children and even your pet) all of these will be effected as well.

C .Star. V

Good vs Bad Choices

How are we really supposed to decipher between good and bad choices? Besides the obvious of knowing right from wrong and of what we have been taught or witnessed out of outcomes and observations. We can also use the 10 commandments as a set of 10 good ‘common sense rules’ and we can use our own senses. Some people call it using our heads, hearts or gut feelings. Others may call it being mindful or being aware. It doesn’t matter what we call it, but using it properly when we need to, is what counts.

At one time or another, we envision how we want things in our life to be or how we imagine them, in our own minds to be. I say imagine because often we have an unrealistic perception of what it is or how things really need to be. Even in the efforts it takes, in order to have what it is that we desire or want in our lives. This can disappoint, frustrate and cause chaos in many of our lives. How many times, do we want something, such as, a relationship, marriage, a pet, raising children, a certain job or lifestyle or even just good health, but our lives don’t seem to turn out how we envisioned or imagined it to be? We hear of many people, children and pets abused, neglected and others stricken with illnesses and diseased.

It seems as though our society rushes to make choices or decisions without really understanding, preparing or realizing the whole picture. Many people make choices because of what others do or what others say to do, or what they feel they should do. Once a choice is made, it is often too late to undo it. However, there really isn’t a bad choice (well, unless it’s one that is against those 10 common sense rules, stated above) and depending on which one, will depend upon the Karma we will deal with in coping with it. However, making good choices vs making bad choices starts with learning to have good intent that runs parallel with it’s purpose.

The good news is, if our choices (doesn’t happen to turn out good), were made with good intent; we will be able to adjust the purpose to end-up parallel with the intent. *Example, we wanted a pet, choose to get one, the intent was to have a furry-friend, to have fun with, and to love and one that will love us back. Yet, the pet isn’t obedient, feels like too much of a responsibility, causes chaos, stress and unpleasantness.

So instead of the happy and pleasant outcome, the purpose is not seeming to run parallel with the intent. However, in taking the steps to learn tips and get advice on putting the pet and yourself upon a schedule, along with being patient with and understanding the pets feelings these efforts help . As well as, realizing what the pets needs are and making the efforts to make things right. From this, it will end-up with a successful purpose, which will now be parallel with the intent; which was to have a furry-friend, to have fun with and to love and one that will love us back.

In choosing and making good decisions, (in any situation) we must first research, evaluate and prepare ourselves for the true whole picture and responsibilities, not just the one imagined in our minds or to fill our time or the needs only felt in our hearts.

C . Star V.

UnClutter Yourself

 It seems as though if we have a lot of choices, it can get more difficult to choose the correct ones.  Yet, if we don’t have many choices, it seems as though we can end up making bad ones.

This all plays out, each day in our lives and we have to first grasp the concept that there really is no good or bad choice.. Well the results might end up good or bad in our opinion and of our thinking of what is good(right) or bad(wrong) to us; of course there is obviously the reality of right and wrong.

However, even though we all should have a good idea of what is actually ‘right and wrong’ (morally and legally), it may differ from each other since, we may not have been taught or learned in the same way . As there are different views and different opinions on what is good or bad . This can cause confusion as we use those aspects of good and bad before we make choice.

Subsequently, if we already live in a life with much chaos, clutter and distraction, we can be blindsided and easily steered into making choices that are not so good and that we may even regret.

All of us seem to live in a world of ‘have-to’s’ and ‘need-to’s’, meanwhile constantly trying to find a way of the ‘getting to’s’ with the ‘want-to’s’.

A good way to start setting up an atmosphere of creating a series of better choices and success is to start with uncluttering and re-organizing (some people call it regrouping) because doing this clears the mind, soul and space! The art of uncluttering, is not just limited to only material things we have around us, but also of the uncluttering of our minds. We all have different methods and ideas in doing so and again, there isn’t any good or bad way of doing it, but possibly a more efficient and successful way.

The 1st step could be to begin to get rid of excessive material things around ourselves and in our living space (at the least to go through, clean up, reorganize and put away or store), especially things that are just literally taking up space and not necessarily something that you will be readily using or needing for awhile. This will get you going in the right direction, then create (a go-to or place) for things ‘as a home to put items in where it goes’ and this also begins to help.

From there, we can begin to see some clarity, what’s really important to us, focusing on what we next need to in creating more actions that will begin to steer us in the right directions. All this will begin to help us achieve the things we want to, instead of spending time purchasing more things, collecting stuff we don’t need and spending time trying to keep things cleaned-up and less chaotic.

This will make it easy to figure out, more of what it is we really need.                 

One of the biggest dilemma’s I find in many people, is that they are constantly worried about not having something or not having enough of something. This is not only a common issue, but it is a very sensitive and personal one and it brings us into such a monumental cause in worrying, stressing- over and even hoarding. Yet, so much time and energy is spent purchasing, worrying, stressing-over and hoarding ; sadly most of ‘these things’ we won’t even ever use, many of the things will expire or go bad (by the time we use them) and other these things we will really, never need.

I suppose it all stems from the fear of not having or not being able to get them, but it would only seem logical to use the energy and time in doing something more positive, that will ensure you won’t have to fear about that anymore.. Such as surrounding yourself with positive, caring and loving people, making friends and groups to socialize with (maybe even to barter things with) and spend more time learning skills, having fun and enjoying your life, instead of worrying about things you may not have.

This may even include relocating yourself and moving to an area that’s accessible for things that you feel you’re going to need.       

Most importantly, nothing is guaranteed even if you were saving something or hoarding some things that you think you’re going to need or that you feel is going to save or help you in one way or another, it may not end up that way. Since by the time you need it, there might have to be another solution, in fact …one that you should’ve already been working on.

C .Star. V

Our Choices Have Value

“Our choices make up our world”

How do we learn right from wrong? How are we all suppose to know exactly what to do, when to do it, where to do it at and with whom? Our lives seem to bring us confusion, disappointment, hurt, pain, struggles and stress, as we figure it all out. Meanwhile, we wonder what we are here for in this world as we are trying to just survive.

There really is no one answer that fits it all, but we all need to understand just how important and monumental our choices in life can be and more importantly, is how we allow them to affect us.

Our lives start as infants, then toddlers, then pre-teens, teens, young adults, then older adults, as seniors and then as an elder. Our world has been filled with more and more people, this means more and more opinions, views and choices. Often we, misinterpret one another because of the lack of, ‘wanting to understand’ or care about one another’s feelings, struggles or needs.  Along with, living in a society that doesn’t realizes the need to teach our children coping and ‘every-day’ living skills. We then are left dealing with a society of adults, whom already don’t know how to cope well with every-day life, either.

We may be steered into a way of life that may not be realistic, nor have allowed us to have learned how to cope with the basics in life. Then, we may end-up being mistreated or misunderstood and with each passing day we may not be as grateful and happy as we could be.

We all continue to use our free-will to choose and do what we feel that we want to or can do. Yet, there’s so much more then just the physical aspect of our lives and what we can only see, that controls our outcomes and our choices. 

It is the energies put forth in our choices and decisions we make, that create our life and this, creates our world.  So, until we learn how to become more aware of our spiritual factors, we as humans will make our share of blunders, uh-oh’s and mistakes.

Yet, by finding solutions to educate ourselves so not to be misunderstood and in taking the responsibility of wrong choices, we can be creating good outcomes, regardless. Meanwhile, asking for forgiveness, forgiving ourselves and others and then moving on from whatever it is bothering us. This will give value to our lives.

Now that might sound a bit strange “To value our mistakes”, but after all those were our choices. In doing so, it will bring forth growth, strength and the ability to make better choices in our lives.

C .Star. V